Talk It Over Questions
Talk It Over 10/25/26
Series Title: We Are...
Message Title: We Are GENEROUS
1. Where do you notice a consumer mindset ("What can I get?") showing up in your daily life, and in how you approach church?
2. What gifts or strengths do you think God has given you? Where have you been holding them back, and why?
3. How does thinking of yourself as a steward rather than an owner change the way you view your gifts, time, and money?
4. Jesus said that where our treasure is, our heart will be also. What does your spending and giving say about what you trust and love?
5. What area of your life is God asking you to be more generous with?
Ask Your Kids
God Can Give Me Grace
1. How would it make you feel and how would you respond if you got a total surprise, out-of-the-blue present for no reason, like you did nothing to earn or deserve it?
Read together Psalm 103:1-14
2. Compassion means that God sees the suffering we experience because of sin and takes action to help, which He does through forgiveness. He is not easily angered, and He has so much love! How can remembering God’s compassion and grace help when you make wrong choices?
3. Psalm 103 talks about how God is forgiving. What do you think it is like to experience God’s forgiveness? What happens and what changes?
4. God forgives us and gives us grace because He loves us. If a friend asked you how to have a fresh start, how could today’s Bible story help answer that question?
Talk It Over 10/18/26
Series Title: We Are...
Message Title: We Are DEVOTED
Key Scripture: Acts 2:37–47
1. Growing Beyond Sunday: At Destiny Church, we offer several resources to help you grow in your relationship with Jesus throughout the week—including our 5-Day Devotionals, Bible Reading Plan, and 11:1 discipleship groups. Have you been engaging with any of these resources? If so, how are they helping you grow? If not, what's one resource you could begin using this week?
2. Devotion Begins With Surrender: In Acts 2, before the believers devoted themselves to the ways of Jesus, they first surrendered their lives to Him. What's the difference between simply believing in Jesus and living a surrendered life? Is there an area of your life where you struggle to fully surrender to Him?
3. Allowing God's Word to Shape Us: We talked about the importance of not just reading God's Word, but allowing God's Word to read us. What does that mean to you? How can we move beyond simply gaining biblical knowledge to actually allowing Scripture to transform the way we live?
4. Devoted to One Another: The early church didn't simply attend gatherings together—they shared life, encouraged one another, and cared for each other's needs. How does that compare to the way we experience church today? What could we do differently to build deeper, more meaningful relationships with other believers?
5. What Could God Do Through Us? Imagine what Destiny Church could look like one year from now if every person moved from simply attending church to living as a devoted disciple of Jesus. What might change in our families, relationships, and community? More personally, what's one area where you believe God is inviting you into deeper devotion right now?
Ask Your Kids
God Can Give Me Hope
1. Can you think of a time when you were given a second chance? What was the situation, and how did that second chance make a difference for you?
Read all or parts of Numbers 21:4-9; John 3:14-17 from your Bible
2. In the Bible story, Jesus said that just as Moses lifted up the bronze snake to save the Israelites, Jesus would be lifted up so that anyone who believes in Him can be rescued from sin and enjoy life with God forever. How can what Jesus said give us hope?
3. When the Israelites were bitten by snakes, they could look at the bronze snake and be healed. What can we do when we make wrong choices?
Talk It Over 10/11/26
Series Title: We Are...
Message Title: We Are FAMILY
Read Ephesians 2:19-20
1. Can you remember a time when you felt like an outsider or walked into a room where you didn't know anyone? What made you feel welcomed or unwelcome?
2. Paul says we are no longer strangers and foreigners but members of God's family. How does that change the way you see yourself and your relationship with God?
3. The sermon describes the difference between being a citizen and being a member of a household. What does it mean to belong to God's family rather than simply attend church?
4. What does it mean for Jesus to be the cornerstone of our church and our relationships? Discuss this with your table group!
5. How can Destiny Church become known as a church where people don't just find a seat, but truly find a family?
Ask Your Kids
God Can Make Me Whole
1. If you could have a “fresh start” button where you could rewind 10 minutes and try something again, when would you want to use it?
Re-read our Bible Story from John 18:15-27; 21:12-19.
2. Jesus talked with Peter after he lied about knowing Jesus. Instead of being mad, Jesus welcomed Peter and gave him an important job. Jesus showed Peter that he was forgiven and could have a fresh start. How can this Bible story remind you about the way God sees you and your sin?
3. When Jesus forgave Peter, Jesus made Peter whole again and gave him a fresh start. What do you think is different between being broken and not forgiven versus being forgiven and made whole by God?
4. How can what we learned from today’s Bible story help someone who feels ashamed or embarrassed because of wrong choices?
Talk It Over 10/4/26
Series Title: We Are...
Message Title: We Are UNITED
1. The sermon says, “Everything we do must always point people back to Jesus and the finished work of the cross.” How does unity help us accomplish that mission?
2. Ephesians 4:1–6 emphasizes humility, gentleness, patience, and making allowance for one another. Which of these is easiest for you, and which is most challenging? Why?
3. Jesus prayed in John 17 that His followers would be one. Why do you think unity among believers was important enough for Jesus to pray about before going to the cross?
4. “We desperately need each other.” Why is it sometimes difficult for us to admit that we need other people?
5. Complete this sentence: “If I want to help Destiny Church become more united, I need to __________.”
Ask Your Kids
God Can Forgive Me
1. How can moving from an old grade to a new grade feel like a fresh start?
2. Jesus told a man who could not walk that his sins were forgiven, which was the most important gift the man could receive. Jesus showed that He has the power to forgive sins and give people a fresh start, not just on the outside but on the inside too. Why is forgiveness such good news?
3. God made us to have a relationship with Him, but sin breaks that relationship. The good news is that God sent His Son, Jesus, to make the way for us to be forgiven and have a forever relationship with Him. What is different when God forgives us and gives us a fresh start?
4. Sometimes we might not think our choices are wrong. While not every choice we make is a wrong choice, we all sin and make wrong choices. These can be wrong thoughts, wrong attitudes, or wrong actions. How does it help to know that even when we disobey God, Jesus can still forgive us and give us a fresh start?