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Series Title: We Are...

Message Title: We Are FAMILY

Ephesians 2:19-20 NLT

19 So now you Gentiles are no longer strangers and foreigners. You are citizens along with all of God’s holy people. You are members of God’s family. 20 Together, we are his house, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets. And the cornerstone is Christ Jesus himself.



1. There are no STRANGERS in God's Family


THERE IS A SEAT WITH YOUR NAME ON IT AT DESTINY CHURCH



2. We are all members of GOD'S HOUSEHOLD


Ephesians 2:19 NLT

19 So now you Gentiles are no longer strangers and foreigners. You are citizens along with all of God’s holy people. You are members of God’s family. 



3. Jesus is the CORNERSTONE


Ephesians 2:20 NLT

20 Together, we are his house, built on the foundation of the apostles and the prophets. And the cornerstone is Christ Jesus himself.


Isaiah 28:16 NLT

Therefore, this is what the Sovereign Lord says: “Look! I am placing a foundation stone in Jerusalem,

a firm and tested stone. It is a precious cornerstone that is safe to build on. Whoever believes need never be shaken.

Talk It Over Questions

Read Ephesians 2:19-20 


1. Can you remember a time when you felt like an outsider or walked into a room where you didn't know anyone? What made you feel welcomed or unwelcome?


2. Paul says we are no longer strangers and foreigners but members of God's family. How does that change the way you see yourself and your relationship with God?


3. The sermon describes the difference between being a citizen and being a member of a household. What does it mean to belong to God's family rather than simply attend church?


4. What does it mean for Jesus to be the cornerstone of our church and our relationships? Discuss this with your table group!


5. How can Destiny Church become known as a church where people don't just find a seat, but truly find a family?


Ask Your Kids


God Can Make Me Whole


1. If you could have a “fresh start” button where you could rewind 10 minutes and try something again, when would you want to use it?

Re-read our Bible Story from John 18:15-27; 21:12-19. 


2. Jesus talked with Peter after he lied about knowing Jesus. Instead of being mad, Jesus welcomed Peter and gave him an important job. Jesus showed Peter that he was forgiven and could have a fresh start. How can this Bible story remind you about the way God sees you and your sin?


3. When Jesus forgave Peter, Jesus made Peter whole again and gave him a fresh start. What do you think is different between being broken and not forgiven versus being forgiven and made whole by God?


4. How can what we learned from today’s Bible story help someone who feels ashamed or embarrassed because of wrong choices?